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Toxic Friends

This is not only a chapter in my life but we’ve all experienced or are currently experiencing toxic friendships.

Beware of toxic friends!

Friends that are jealous of your success, your up keep and your life. They always have something to say about you. They are always talking about your life. Always ready to point fingers, laugh and spoil your name when you go wrong.

Friends that are waiting for your downfall. Anytime you try to do something great with your life, they are always trying to bring you down.

Friends that turn the people you surround yourself with against you. It might be at work, at school etc. Because they JUST don’t like you.

Friends that you gave your all, you always help them out, but you got nothing in return. They did not even care about you.

Friends that always wish you bad. They have plans to sabotage your life because you are better than them. You might have been on the same path at some point in life but your blessings were bigger and you took a different road.

Friends that won’t help you get to where you’re going and probably won’t share things with you. They will always tell lies.

Friends that do not care about anyone but themselves. When you are low, they will make you feel lower.

Friends that use you for your kindness. They get close, find your weakness and use it against you. Pretentious friends. 

The list could go on and on.

If you have friends that make you feel like you are loosing bits of yourself, in a negative way, or not helping to build you up, always trying to tear you down, should be gotten rid of. If you cannot tell them directly, simply build a bridge if that’s easier.

Better yet, don’t forget about them – Appreciate them because ‘BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL PERSON, LIES A PACK OF HATERS.’ They don’t know they are your everyday motivation to do better. They push you to the wall, but you climb up the wall to the other side.

Appreciate them because now you know the kind of friends you want in your life.

Such people don’t really hate you, they hate themselves because you’re a reflection of what they wish to be.

Watch out!

Hope you enjoyed reading this.

 

 

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