Too many ladies are afraid to speak out about what they want for fear that their partners will take it as some sort of insult or challenge which is stupid, but that’s another subject altogether. Once a woman reaches the point where she gives zero fucks, that’s a show of strength. It’s beautiful. She knows… Continue reading Reminder: Asking For What You Want Is Strong & Sexy, Not Needy
My biggest fear isn’t failure, it’s living an ordinary life. I used to be terrified of failing and making myself look like an idiot, which held me back from taking risks and trying new things. Now I’ve realized that taking risks is what life’s all about and if I don’t at least try, then I’ll… Continue reading My Biggest Fear
Continuation of my story of how I felt when I lost my friend in 2009. I dream of him sometimes and thought I should write it down. Click here for Part 1 —- I pulled myself up onto the bed and hugged him. I did not want to let him go. I wasn’t ready. “I… Continue reading Short Story: 2:00A.M. Dreams (Part 2)
Family is important, but not as important as you. Sure, there is heritage history, family roots. But when you find your true calling, do not hesitate to fly away and become who you really are. Family is important, it’s a step up to the world, but if you do not move your wings, how will… Continue reading So Far Into 2017, Ten Irreplaceable Lessons Learned.
My parents, mostly my father, was and still is a fantastic human, who taught me so many important lessons to prepare me for my adult life. My mother was alive and around but family complications made it had for us to talk or see each other, until I was an adult. My father has always… Continue reading I Never Had “The Talk” With My Parents. But Somehow, I Figured Out About Puberty, Boys and Sex.
Am I crazy or are we going through the dark ages of dating right now? The millennial generation seems to love to keep going up in the air, half committed and confusing as hell. We don’t like labels and we definitely don’t like to talk about how we feel to our partners. Aren’t relationships supposed… Continue reading 2017, an Era Where It’s All About Casual Sex And Not Relationships Anymore.
I will start by defining ‘vulnerability’. According to my dictionary and maybe yours and Google too — vulnerability is the state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed either physically or emotionally. So, why would anyone want to put themselves in that state? When I first started dating, I was pretty… Continue reading I’ve Heard That To Love Is To Be Vulnerable. But Here’s What Happens When You Are Vulnerable and Date Too Many Guys Who Weren’t.