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I’ve Heard That To Love Is To Be Vulnerable. But Here’s What Happens When You Are Vulnerable and Date Too Many Guys Who Weren’t.

I will start by defining ‘vulnerability’. According to my dictionary and maybe yours and Google too — vulnerability is the state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed either physically or emotionally. So, why would anyone want to put themselves in that state?  When I first started dating, I was pretty… Continue reading I’ve Heard That To Love Is To Be Vulnerable. But Here’s What Happens When You Are Vulnerable and Date Too Many Guys Who Weren’t.

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Honestly, If This Isn’t Going Anywhere, It Certainly Isn’t going To Your Bed.

Okay. We’ve been talking. First date happens – you take me for a dinner, buy me flowers and we have a great night together. Then it gets to the moment when we’re getting ready to call it a night. If you’re thinking to yourself, ” I did everything right, she’s definitely going to let me… Continue reading Honestly, If This Isn’t Going Anywhere, It Certainly Isn’t going To Your Bed.

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When You Find And Embrace Your Inner Bitch, This Is What Happens.

If you want something, embrace your inner bitch – we all have that. Go for it with everything you’ve got. Instead of sitting back, being polite and asking permission to be the badass you know you are, why not just cut to the chase and go for it? You’ll be shocked by how quickly you… Continue reading When You Find And Embrace Your Inner Bitch, This Is What Happens.

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I’ve Spent Too Much Time Trying To Be The Girl I Thought Guys Wanted And I’m Over That.

I remember in college and a little bit after college before I realized what I’m writing now – and I mean this post – when I was interested in a guy, I used to think “I hope he likes me!” which would usually make me want to be everything I thought he wanted in order… Continue reading I’ve Spent Too Much Time Trying To Be The Girl I Thought Guys Wanted And I’m Over That.

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People Don’t Talk Much About Sex…But I do. So, Here’s What Sex Is For Me.

Sex might be a strictly physical activity for some people, but not for me. I can’t hook up with just anyone and I can’t just walk away once I’ve slept with someone. In my life, sex is more emotional than it is physical. I don’t think I have ever had meaningless sex. Every person I… Continue reading People Don’t Talk Much About Sex…But I do. So, Here’s What Sex Is For Me.

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Book Review#4 ‘The Subtle Art of NOT Giving A Fuck’ by Mark Manson

Okay, let me just go straight to the point. I don’t usually go for self help books cause to me they are all the same! Smile more, love more, hate less, don’t give up, it’s gonna be okay, it’s all in your head. Blah blah blah…. but this one was the exception. Anything with curse… Continue reading Book Review#4 ‘The Subtle Art of NOT Giving A Fuck’ by Mark Manson