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Reminder: Asking For What You Want Is Strong & Sexy, Not Needy

Too many ladies are afraid to speak out about what they want for fear that their partners will take it as some sort of insult or challenge which is stupid, but that’s another subject altogether. Once a woman reaches the point where she gives zero fucks, that’s a show of strength. It’s beautiful. She knows… Continue reading Reminder: Asking For What You Want Is Strong & Sexy, Not Needy

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2017, an Era Where It’s All About Casual Sex And Not Relationships Anymore.

Am I crazy or are we going through the dark ages of dating right now? The millennial generation seems to love to keep going up in the air, half committed and confusing as hell. We don’t like labels and we definitely don’t like to talk about how we feel to our partners. Aren’t relationships supposed… Continue reading 2017, an Era Where It’s All About Casual Sex And Not Relationships Anymore.

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I’ve Heard That To Love Is To Be Vulnerable. But Here’s What Happens When You Are Vulnerable and Date Too Many Guys Who Weren’t.

I will start by defining ‘vulnerability’. According to my dictionary and maybe yours and Google too — vulnerability is the state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed either physically or emotionally. So, why would anyone want to put themselves in that state?  When I first started dating, I was pretty… Continue reading I’ve Heard That To Love Is To Be Vulnerable. But Here’s What Happens When You Are Vulnerable and Date Too Many Guys Who Weren’t.

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Honestly, If This Isn’t Going Anywhere, It Certainly Isn’t going To Your Bed.

Okay. We’ve been talking. First date happens – you take me for a dinner, buy me flowers and we have a great night together. Then it gets to the moment when we’re getting ready to call it a night. If you’re thinking to yourself, ” I did everything right, she’s definitely going to let me… Continue reading Honestly, If This Isn’t Going Anywhere, It Certainly Isn’t going To Your Bed.

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When You Find And Embrace Your Inner Bitch, This Is What Happens.

If you want something, embrace your inner bitch – we all have that. Go for it with everything you’ve got. Instead of sitting back, being polite and asking permission to be the badass you know you are, why not just cut to the chase and go for it? You’ll be shocked by how quickly you… Continue reading When You Find And Embrace Your Inner Bitch, This Is What Happens.

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I’ve Spent Too Much Time Trying To Be The Girl I Thought Guys Wanted And I’m Over That.

I remember in college and a little bit after college before I realized what I’m writing now – and I mean this post – when I was interested in a guy, I used to think “I hope he likes me!” which would usually make me want to be everything I thought he wanted in order… Continue reading I’ve Spent Too Much Time Trying To Be The Girl I Thought Guys Wanted And I’m Over That.