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I Never Had “The Talk” With My Parents. But Somehow, I Figured Out About Puberty, Boys and Sex.

My parents, mostly my father, was and still is a fantastic human, who taught me so many important lessons to prepare me for my adult life. My mother was alive and around but family complications made it had for us to talk or see each other, until I was an adult. My father has always… Continue reading I Never Had “The Talk” With My Parents. But Somehow, I Figured Out About Puberty, Boys and Sex.

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Honestly, If This Isn’t Going Anywhere, It Certainly Isn’t going To Your Bed.

Okay. We’ve been talking. First date happens – you take me for a dinner, buy me flowers and we have a great night together. Then it gets to the moment when we’re getting ready to call it a night. If you’re thinking to yourself, ” I did everything right, she’s definitely going to let me… Continue reading Honestly, If This Isn’t Going Anywhere, It Certainly Isn’t going To Your Bed.

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People Don’t Talk Much About Sex…But I do. So, Here’s What Sex Is For Me.

Sex might be a strictly physical activity for some people, but not for me. I can’t hook up with just anyone and I can’t just walk away once I’ve slept with someone. In my life, sex is more emotional than it is physical. I don’t think I have ever had meaningless sex. Every person I… Continue reading People Don’t Talk Much About Sex…But I do. So, Here’s What Sex Is For Me.

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When I Show You My Nakedness, This is Exactly What I Mean.

Naked is letting you see me like no one else has. All lights on. It’s you seeing why I’m the way I am. It’s me giving you the key to this door that no one has been able to open. It’s the door to all the insecurities, fears, and regrets. It’s quitting the act; letting… Continue reading When I Show You My Nakedness, This is Exactly What I Mean.